I was reading someone else's blog today where they wrote one listing 100 things about themselves and/or their life in honor of their 100th post. I'm not quite to 100 yet, but felt the urge to do this anyway, so you get "65 Things" in honor of 65 posts!
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1984--this was the year I turned seven. I remember my party particularly because this party and memory contained my Aunt Susie. My stepmom Cindy just mentioned this to me the other day. I remember my Aunt Susie got me nail polish and lipstick for my birthday. My mom was none too happy about that because of the messiness factor. When I got home with them, I don't think I saw them again because Mom came like a thief in the night and snatched them. I probably thought she was pure evil at the time, but now as a mother, I applaud her!
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Civil War--most people that know me well know I'm a huge Civil War buff. As a matter of fact, I'm in the middle of watching North and South again for probably the 1,258th time. My love for that time period was re-awakened last week as I drove through Louisiana, Mississippi, and Alabama coming home from Florida. Just driving through the states, seeing railroad tracks, seeing the old homes, reminded me of the simpleness of life in those times. One day, God Willing, I'll be able to visit all the old Civil War sites.
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Water--I like water to drink now so much more since I've quit smoking. When I smoked, I couldn't stand to drink water because it wouldn't get the nasty taste out of my mouth. Now when I drink it, it's so pure and tasty and it reminds me that my mouth tastes a lot better because it doesn't have a cigarette in it!
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Girly--I, myself am NOT girly at all! But I find it funny that God gave me two girls whom I love to frill up and make princessy! I'm totally into the hair bows, dresses and shoes for the girls, but couldn't care less for myself in that department.
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Blue--my favorite color. I have to have some sort of shade of it in anything I make or color or it doesn't look symmetrical to me.
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Spelling--I've always been a very good speller. I won the spelling bee in my grade every year through seventh grade, where I actually won the building spelling bee. It's a special gift!!
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Cooking--I DETEST cooking.....I'm not very good at it and just plain can't stand it. Thank God he sent me a husband who loves to cook and is awesome at it.
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Swing Dancing--I've wanted to take Swing Dancing classes for a while now. Maybe David and I can do that next summer when I finish school and the kids are a little bigger. My dream is to go to a wedding with my Swing Dancing skills and wow the audience.
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Messages--I've been told several times that I leave the longest voice mail messages. I guess I do, but I just try to get everything I need to tell people out in one message.
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Conservation--Going back to leaving messages.....I'm a huge conservationist! I get on to Madelyn all the time for wasting food. I make everybody turn off the faucet while they are brushing their teeth. If I have to run errands, I'll do a quick map out in my head before starting the trip to conserve time and gas. It's actually a little OCD!!
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Escalators--I have a mild escalator phobia when my children are involved. I'm not scared of it when I'm by myself, but I hate taking Madelyn on one. She bounces around so much and spazzes with little provocation that I'm afraid she won't be paying attention and get sucked down into it. I'm weird, I know!
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Holes--I have two holes in each ear that I hardly ever wear earrings in. Goes back to my non-girliness I guess. I actually don't mind earrings, but a few years ago, my ears suddenly started getting very irritated no matter what kind of earrings I wore. I haven't found a pair yet that don't bother me.
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Salt--I NEVER add salt to anything. I will eat fries that someone salts, but it's not a requirement.
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Summer--I enjoy the long days and outdoorsyness of summer, but I can't stand the heat that goes along with it. Every year, I get more and more sensitive to the heat. By the time I'm 65, I'll have to have an air conditioner strapped to my body to leave the house. 85 is my top tolerable temperature.
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Winter--I LOVE winter!! I seriously think I could live in Alaska and it wouldn't bother me at all. As long as I see the sun and it's not cloudy all the time, I would love it. I love the coziness of winter. Coming home from work right when it's getting dark, putting on my jammies, and curling up in my bed with hot chocolate and a bowl of beans.!! Yummy!!
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Gray Hair---these little intruders that have been coming in since I was 25 and are getting more and more frequent are really starting to tick me off. I'm so much on the verge of coloring them, but don't want the hassle of continuing to color my hair for the rest of my life.
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Ford Fairlane--In high school, my friend Amy Westfall had a Cherry Red 1970 Ford Fairlane. We would ride around in it everywhere and I secretly coveted it as I had a 1985 Chevrolet Cavalier Station Wagon. The wagon was cool, but that Fairlane called my name.
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Birthdays--I'm quite seriously autistic when it comes to remembering dates, especially birthdays. I can remember the birthdays of kids I went to elementary school with. I'm like a freak show to Mike Kobriger, a buddy of Dave's, who loves to show off my ability to groups we are with.
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Cats--think they suck and I'm allergic to them.
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Claustrophobia--seem to have a strengthening case of this. Seems to mainly affect me when I'm in a large crowd or driving at night or on a stinking bridge with ocean on either side. Makes me feel very out-of-control!
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Blog--I started this blog almost a year ago to chronicle the lives of the girls and our family in general. I'd like to post at least once a week, but sometimes it's hard. This will be awesome to archive and have the girls look back at when they are older.
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Birth--I was born on April 26, 1977 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma.
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Big Baby--I weighed 8 pounds, 3 ounces at birth and was 20 inches long and I was breech until a little bit before I came out. The doctor got my mom up on all fours and reached in there and turned me around before my exit. My poor Mama!!
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Extended Family--I have one sister (Holly) and three stepsisters (Kim, Misty, and Autumn) and one stepbrother(Nick). I have one dad(Dino) and one stepdad (Merritt). I have one mom (Veronica) and one stepmom (Cindy). I have 3 nieces and 2 nephews total.
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Mannaw--I had an awesome great-grandmother on my mom's side. Her name was Hazel, but we called her Mannaw. I had the incredible blessing of getting to know and visit my great grandmother often when I was a child. She was very feisty, but very loving. She went to be with Jesus on August 26, 2004, three weeks before my first child was born. I miss her very much!!
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Horses--Never been a big fan of horses. When I lived in Carnegie, it was almost required to like and ride horses. I would try my hand about once a year riding a horse, but never really got it. I actually started to get it and enjoy it about 3 months before Daniel and I split up. I'll have to try again someday.
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Daniel--Daniel was my first husband. We met at Southwestern in the fall of 1995. We dated for a year and a half before we got married. Looking back, I got married way too young and I didn't have a clue what marriage was all about. But I don't for a second regret doing it. I loved Daniel very much and he had so many good qualities. My time with him shaped me and helped me grow as a person. I only wish him happiness!
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David--My precious, God-Given life partner. We put God first in our marriage and we seek his will in everything we do. Our marriage isn't perfect, but our committment to God and each other is firm and steady! My favorite thing about David is that whenever I feel tired or have a headache, he very selflessly just takes over for me to get a little rest! That's when I feel the most special! He makes me laugh and scream sometimes too! He gave me two precious babies and for that I am eternally grateful!!
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Wikipedia--I'm a Wikipedia addict. I know some of the stuff you read on there is not true or completely accurate as it is updated by people who choose to update it, but it has some really good information. Sometimes when I'm bored, I can spend 2 hours looking up stuff on there and learning new things.
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Jeopardy--I think I would do really well on Jeopardy. I know a little bit about lots of things. I get this from my dad. We are full of useless information!!
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Mushrooms--I couldn't stand mushrooms at all until I started dating David. I tried them one time with him and got hooked. Now I crave them. My favorite way to eat them is sauteed, Outback Steakhouse style!
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The Twirly Game--I dont' know if that's the official name for it.....well, I guess it can be since I made it up. Holly will understand this. When Holly and I were about 6 and 8 respectively, we would play this game in the living room floor when we were bored. It required a long night gown that was stretchable. The night gown wearer would stand in the middle of the floor while the other player would lay down in the floor and grasp the night gown in her hand. Then the night gown wearer would run around the person on the floor as fast as she could while the person on the floor held on for dear life all while being twirled around at warp speeds.!! Great Game!! Provided hours of entertainment, but wasn't so good for the night gowns!
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Age--this is the age I will be on my next birthday. It's going way too fast!! Wasn't it just yesterday that I was the night gown wearer twirling my sister around.
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Getting hurt--When we were little, my sister got hurt ALL the time. Well, she still does and she's 30. I hardly ever got hurt, probably because I was a little less daring than Holly. But I always secretly wished I would break a leg or something to get that loving attention that Holly always got when she got hurt.
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Fractured Wrist--one of the few times I DID get hurt as a kid, I couldn't hardly get anyone to believe me that I was hurt because I never got hurt. After my wrist swelled up to the size of a watermelon, I finally got the parents attention to take me to the hospital. They just weren't expecting me to really be hurt!
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Dad singing--I remember my dad would sing in the car when I was little and I remember thinking what a great voice he had. And I always thought he should sing at church. He did sing in the choir for a time, but never a solo. I think he told me one time that he was too embarrassed or shy to sing by himself.
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Michelle-- when I was 7 or 8, I was going through a name difficulty. When I started second grade, I decided I didn't want to go by April anymore, but I would rather go by my middle name of Michelle. I went by that my entire second grade year and then went back to April in third grade. Second grade was my incognito year!
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Sarah--this was the name I always wanted for myself when I played make-believe. Which is actually ironic now because when Madelyn plays make-believe, she often chooses this name for her babies or herself. Like mother, Like daughter!
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Hallmark moments--Before I had children, I was never really a sappy person at all! I could watch those Hallmark commercials all day and never shed a tear. Now, I can cry literally at the drop of a hat. I'm just so much more emotional than I used to be.
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Baptism--this act brings me more joy than almost anything on this earth. Ever since I was a little girl, I have loved witnessing Baptisms. They are just such a blessing and such a joy to see someone joining the family of God. Just last Sunday, two children got baptized and I watched their parents' choke up talking about it and the thought entered my mind of Madelyn and Meredith coming to me one day and asking to get baptized. Just the thought of them doing that brought big, ole, alligator tears to my eyes!!
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Singing--I think I have a pretty singing voice. When we were coming home last week from Florida, Leslie and I sang together and it was beautiful. I think my voice sounds best when I'm singing praise and worship music. I believe that I have a voice for the Lord. I'm a little like my dad though and find it very hard to get up by myself and sing. I'd love to sing in a group though!
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Pillows--I can't have too many pillows to sleep with. Before I was ever pregnant for the first time, I was a regular back sleeper. I slept with my head on one pillow and no other pillows for support. When I was pregnant, I started needing more support for my back and between my legs and I learned to sleep on my side. This is how I sleep all the time now.
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Baby Kicks--my favorite part of my pregnancies! I remember it felt like an alien in there moving around and the coolest thing was watching it from the outside. Seeing a butt or body roll over in there was pretty exciting. I wish I had videotaped it. I actually tried it with Meredith several times, but the stubborn little thing never would move when the camera was rolling. Guess I'll just have to have another baby...**hint, hint, David**
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Left-handed--I'm left-handed and very proud of it. I really think Meredith is going to be my left-handed kid. She uses it consistently to color with and throw a ball.
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Lost Babies--I lost two babies between Madelyn and Meredith. Never knew why...it just happened. God is faithful though and blessed me with Meredith. I wonder if they were boys or girls. Thank God for his promise that I will see them again in heaven!
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Silky--I am obsessed with silky blankets. I have been as long as I can remember. I used to have this one small silky blanket that my great-grandmother got me when I was a baby that I kept at my dad's house that was my favorite. I remember taking it in the car with me to church every Sunday. Now Meredith has the same fetish too!
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Coca-Cola--my favorite drink in the whole world. I could drink it every day all day!! But, alas, my teeth would fall out and I would weigh 400 pounds. Since I'm actively dieting right now, I really have to control myself. I usually allow myself one 20 oz. Coke a week. It's like I'm in heaven when I'm drinking it.
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Profile--I hate my profile!! I don't have a big nose, but it looks big in my profile. And I have a jaw that doesn't jut out enough if that makes sense. If I ever wanted plastic surgery (which I will never want), I would fix my profile.
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Marriage--David and I were married on September 27, 2003 in Piedmont, Oklahoma.
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Madelyn--Madelyn came along less than one year later on September 22, 2004.
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Firstborn--Madelyn Grace is my precious firstborn. She was 7 lbs. 9 oz. and 19 1/4 inches long. She had lots of dark hair and pretty, dark skin.
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Meredith--Meredith Kay Louise was born on December 12, 2007, her Great-grandmother's birthday!
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Secondborn--Meredith is my precious secondborn. She was 8 lbs. 6 oz. and 20 1/2 inches long. She had chubby cheeks and dark hair.
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Teacher--I am a certified teacher. I have a Bachelor's Degree in Elementary Education. I haven't used my degree yet and may never, but I don't regret getting it. I still have that teacher blood running through me. I know it will come in handy when the girls are in school.
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CPA--This is what I pray I am in about a year or so. My goal is to buy out a practice and begin building my own. I already have the property picked out that I want to build my office on.
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Days--This is the number of days (56) that have to pass between blood donations. I am an avid blood donor. I started when I was 17 and really enjoy doing it. It makes me feel like I am helping someone.
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I Corinthians 9:24-25--This is my favorite verse in the Bible. "Do you not know that in a race all the runners run? But only ONE gets the prize? Run in such a way as to GET the prize! Everone who competes in the games goes into strict training. They do it to get a crown that will NOT last, but we do it to get a crown that lasts FOREVER!"
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Jesus Christ--I believe that Jesus is the Risen Son of the Living God. I believe he the Truth and the Light and my ONE true way to Heaven. I believe that although I am not worthy, that Jesus is my REDEEMER and paid the price for my sins!
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Cocoa Puffs--I love this cereal!! I love that it satifies a chocolate craving and a crunchy craving. I love how it makes the milk brown and chocolatey.
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Artistic Ability--I have absolutely NONE. My ex-husband Daniel was a gifted artist. My paternal grandfather was awesome. My stepmom can draw beautifully. I can draw a stick figure, but that's about all you get.
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Travel--My dream is to win the lottery and travel the U.S.A. Merritt (my stepdad) used to tease us that when we were grown that he and my mom were buying an RV and touring the nation and we would never be able to find them. Well, that's really what I want to do. Although I would let people find me. I would drive the state highways instead of the interstates and see all the little towns along the way. In the northeast, I would drive along the two-lane highways, stopping to antique shop and buy some fresh pecans, or maple syrup along the way. I pray I get to do this someday!
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Music---I LOVE music. My favorite is Christian music, but is closely followed by classical. I love how music can convey just about any feeling the writer is having. Music has made me laugh, cry, remember, etc.
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Madelyn Part II--Madelyn is such a precious gift to me. She makes me smile everyday and my heart just overflows with love for her. She is so smart and talented. Her hair is so long, down to her bottom. It is very thick and light brown. She has kinky curls framing her face. She is still a snuggler at almost 5 years old. I love that I'm her confidant and twin in silliness. I am sad that her baby years are over, but I look forward to the woman she will become.
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Meredith Part II-- Meredith is precious gift # 2. It's amazing to me how God multiplies the love for your children when you add more instead of divides it. She is still my baby and she runs to me when she's hurt or sad. She's a lover of silky, like her momma. She has very fine, crazy hair and won't leave a ponytail holder in her hair to save her life. She loves to tickle and be tickled. I love to hold her and smell her when I'm holding her close. I look forward to the woman she will become too!
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For Good Measure--This post will make 65 total posts. When I went to put a title to this number, God told me "For Good Measure" and then he sent me this verse....."Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you." Luke 6:38.